Death & Childhood in Victorian England • Dr. Lindsey Fitzharris (2024)

Death & Childhood in Victorian England • Dr. Lindsey Fitzharris (1)I remember many childhood days spent propped up on my grandmother’s couch with a tower of pillows. I’d watch the day peacefully unfold from her picture window. One month, it was bronchitis. The next, it was pneumonia. My mother—then a nursing student—rushed me in and out of doctors’ offices and emergency rooms, where I was poked, prodded and eventually sent home with a bag full of medications.

Principals were notified; classes were missed. Friends brought armfuls of heavy books home each day after school with daily assignments. I’d hear their voices in the other room but never see their faces. Contagion was always a risk.

This was the life of a sick child.

At the time, I felt incredibly sorry for myself. Why couldn’t I enjoy good health like the rest of my girlfriends? Why did I have to stay indoors day after day, and swallow pills that made me nauseated and dizzy?

Years on, however, I began to realise that I was actually very lucky. This wasn’t just the life of a sick child. This was the life of a sick child in the 1980s.

Today, we often associate death with old age. But we don’t have to go back far in history to find a time when childhood was both dangerous and deadly.

Death & Childhood in Victorian England • Dr. Lindsey Fitzharris (2)Victorian children were at risk of dying from a lot of diseases that we’ve eradicated or can control in the 21st century, like smallpox, measles, whooping cough, diphtheria, and dysentery (to name just a few). Death was a common visitor to Victorian households; and the younger one was, the more vulnerable he or she would be.

In 1856, Archibald Tait—the future Archbishop of Canterbury—lost five children in just as many weeks to scarlet fever. [1] When the fever wasn’t fatal, it nearly always weakened the child who often died months or even years later from complications. Indeed, this is the fate of Beth in Louisa May Alcott’s famous book, Little Women (1868/9).

Tuberculosis was also a common killer in the 19th century. On 26 April 1870, Louisa Baldwin (mother of the future prime minister, Stanley Baldwin) wrote in her diary:

I paid a sad call at the Worths where 2 children seem to be at the point of dying, the poor terrible little baby has constant fits & little Madge two years old, who has been ill 12 days with congestion of the lungs. This is the second time I’ve seen them in this illness…we went into next door where we saw poor little Miss Lee evidently very near the end, but sweet and affectionate as ever. [2]

Death & Childhood in Victorian England • Dr. Lindsey Fitzharris (3)No one was immune. The great scientist, Charles Darwin, lost his 10-year-old daughter, Annie [left], to tuberculosis in 1851. In his personal memoir, the grief-stricken father wrote: ‘We have lost the joy of the household, and the solace of our old age…Oh that she could now know how deeply, how tenderly we do still & and shall ever love her dear joyous face.’ [3] By the mid-19th century, tuberculosis accounted for as many as 60,000 children’s deaths per year. [4]

Literature from the period reflects the prevalence of children’s deaths in Victorian England. The dying child makes a frequent appearance in 19th-century novels. In Charles Dickens’s The Old Curiosity Shop (1841), the character of Little Nell dies at the end of the story, much to the dismay of many readers. When describing the scene to his illustrator, George Cattermole, the novelist wrote:

The child lying dead in the little sleeping room, which is behind the open screen. It is winter-time, so there are no flowers; but upon her breast and pillow, and about her bed, there may be strips of holly and berries, and such free green things. Window overgrown with ivy. The little boy who had that talk with her about angels may be by the bedside, if you like it so; but I think it will be quieter and more peaceful if she is alone. I want it to express the most beautiful repose and tranquility, and to have something of a happy look, if death can…I am breaking my heart over this story, and cannot bear to finish it. [5]

Death & Childhood in Victorian England • Dr. Lindsey Fitzharris (4)Though children died with frequent regularity during the Victorian period, a child’s death was still seen as particularly tragic. Even Dickens could not help but mourn the passing of his young, fictitious character [depicted by Cattermole, right].

As a historian, people often ask me if I would have liked to have lived in the past. My answer is always a resounding ‘NO!’ When you consider that only 40 per cent of children born in the 1850s reached their 60th birthday—and less than 10 per cent reached their 80th—I feel very lucky indeed to have been born in 1982.

My life expectancy is 78.

1. D. P. Helm ‘”A Sense of Mercies”: End of Life Care in the Victorian Home’ (Masters Thesis, University of Worcester, 2012), p. 15.
2.Diary of Louisa Baldwin 1870, 26th April 1870. Baldwin papers. 705:775/8229/7 (ii), Worcestershire Record Office. Originally quoted in Helm.
3. The original manuscript is in the Darwin Archive of Cambridge University Library (DAR 210.13). You can find the entire transcript online here.
4. J. Lane, A Social History of Medicine: Health, Healing and Disease in England 1750‐1950 (London, 2001), p.142.
5. Letter from Dickens to Cattermole.

Death & Childhood in Victorian England • Dr. Lindsey Fitzharris (2024)

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What was childhood like in the Victorian era? ›

With no laws to protect children, this meant they had few rights and were badly treated. Seen as simply the property of their parents, many children were abandoned, abused and even bought and sold. Thought to be born evil, children needed to be corrected, punished and made to become good citizens.

How were Victorian children punished? ›

It wasn't a fun life: in reformatory schools children could be hurt, have their hair cut off or their meals reduced if they misbehaved. All Victorian schools were strict and the punishments were harsh. Students could be caned or forced to wear a dunce hat for answering questions incorrectly.

What was life like for a poor child in Victorian times? ›

The homes of the poor were small, cold and damp and often infested with lice and vermin. Water would be collected from a dirty pump in the street and filthy outdoor toilets would be shared with dozens of neighbours. Stoves were new and expensive, so many homes didn't have any way of making hot meals.

What was life like in Victorian England? ›

If you're wondering what was life like in the Victorian era, then social inequality and changes are important points to consider. Poor people often lived in very crowded and unhealthy conditions. They often had to share a small room with many other people, and there was no indoor plumbing.

What was Victoria's childhood like? ›

Victoria's early education

Victoria later claimed she felt lonely and oppressed during her Kensington Palace childhood, despite the companionship of her beloved governess, Baronness Lehzen. Together they made costumes for Victoria's collection of dolls, and Victoria wrote stories.

What are 5 facts about the Victorian era? ›

101 Victorian Facts
  • The first postal system called The Penny Post was introduced in 1840. ...
  • Queen Victoria was born on the 24th May 1819 in Kensington Palace. ...
  • The Victoria Cross was introduced in 1856 to award bravery in the army.
  • In 1870 it became compulsory for all primary aged children to attend school.

What was the worst punishment in Victorian times? ›

What kind of punishments were given? The penalty for the most serious crimes would be death by hanging, sometimes in public.

What did Victorian children do in their spare time? ›

The toys children played with in Victorian times often depended on how wealthy their family was. Children from rich families played with rocking horses, train sets, doll's houses and toy soldiers, whereas children from poor families tended to play with home-made toys such as peg dolls, spinning tops and skipping ropes.

What dangers did the child worker face in Victorian England? ›

Beaten, bullied, shoeless and dirty, they toiled all day, and often night, in conditions of Dickensian squalor. But the popular image of working children in Victorian times ignores one key part of their experience: the young labourers were remarkably stoical about their suffering.

What was the average age of death in Victorian England? ›

These innovations had little significant impact on life expectancy, though, since most diseases remained incurable. Although Victorians who attained adulthood could expect to live into old age, average life expectancy at birth was low: in 1850 it was 40 for men and 42 for women.

What did Victorian girls do? ›

In the 1850s one in nine girls over the age of 10 worked as domestic servants for wealthy homes. Poor children often had to work instead of going to school. Many worked with their parents at home or in workshops, making matchboxes or sewing.

What did poor Victorians eat? ›

Poor families ate more carbohydrates, such as bread, potatoes and porridge oats, as these were cheaper and more filling. Bread with lard or dripping spread across it was a staple meal.

Did Victorian houses have bathrooms? ›

Late-Victorian-era houses started to be built with indoor bathrooms. It wasn't until the 1880s — just a couple of decades before Queen Victoria passed — that indoor plumbing with water tanks and gas water heaters were included in Victorian house features.

What were the gender norms in the Victorian times? ›

Victorians believed that a woman's proper and only place was to be within a household environment. The women were expected to marry, have children, and keep a nice household. Those were the only acceptable roles for women during that era.

What did rich Victorian children wear? ›

Both boys and girls wore long dresses. The richer you were, the longer the skirt! As the baby got older, his hem would be shortened to encourage crawling. Baby William also has several bonnets, a crocheted belly band, a crocheted bib, and two sets of booties.

What was it like for a child who worked in the Victorian era? ›

The working day was long; children often spent 12 hours in physically demanding jobs leaving them exhausted. If they fell asleep whilst at work, children could be beaten by the factory foremen and have their wages docked.

What was childhood like in the 1800s? ›

Small children, even as young as 4 or 5 years old, had chores such as keeping the fire going, fetching water, and caring for livestock. Even families who lived in towns often owned chickens or horses. Children were responsible for feeding the animals and keeping them from eating the garden.

What was parenting like in the Victorian era? ›

Discipline. Victorian parents didn't shy away from the word "no", and they taught their children the difference between right and wrong, true and false. Parents were encouraged not to spoil them or give in to them.

What was family life like in the Victorian era? ›

It was enduring and engendered strong feelings of both love and rage. So in reality was often a source of tension and disquiet. Victorian family may be viewed as a self-sufficient unit and inward looking. But there was an interplay between the public and domestic roles.

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